Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Common errors made during Ramadhan (10 Lessons)

Posted by Editor • July 12, 2011

1. Excessive spending
Ramadhan should be a time to avoid being wasteful, and learning to be prepared in facing harder times by distinguishing the needs from the luxuries. Unfortunately, many people go beyond their limits to spend during Ramadhan. Whether in the varieties of food that they savor each night, or by the other types of spending.

2. Staying awake during the night and sleeping during the day
Some people sleep during most of the day when they are fasting. Ramadhan is not a time of being lazy, and this do not allow the full benefit from the experience of fasting. It is as if they have only inverted their nights into days and vice versa. In addition, some may spend a great portion of the night indulging in eating and drinking and socializing

3. Spending more time in socializing
Because people invite each other more often during Ramadhan they do tend to spend more time socializing with friends, and relatives. While it is a good deed to feed the fasting person, this should not result in precious time lost in vain talk. Use the occasion for remembering Allah and offering additional prayers, and for the Da'wah to Allah.

4. Insisting on performing a certain number of Rakaas during the Tarawih (night) prayer to the point of not praying behind the Imam and thus forfeiting the benefit of congregational prayer.
This might also bring hatred and disagreement between the Muslims of one community.

5. Reading Qur'an too fast
Some insist on finishing the whole Qur'an once or more, even if they have to read very fast. Although reading the Qur'an many times is desirable, this should not be done hastily, especially during the Tarawih prayer without pondering upon its meaning.

Allah ta'ala said: "This is a Book which We have sent down to you, full of blessings that they may ponder over its verses," (Saad 38:29), and the Prophet sallallahu alayhe wa sallam said: "Those who read the Qur'an in less than three days do not grasp [its meaning]"

6. Socializing in l'tikaf
Many people are eager to do I'tikaf but some confine themselves in the masjid not to pray and worship Allah, but to talk and socialize.

7. The ways of doing good are numerous in Ramadhan
Many people try to perform more than they are able to. By going beyond their capabilities, they end up not performing any deed in the desired way.

8. Scholars and Dai'ahs should assume a more prominent role in educating the people -both by talking to them and by giving the best example in their behavior which should comply to the Shariah and following the Sunnah.

9. The Muslim should realize that his priorities dictate that he does what benefits him in the Hereafter and should not put worldly interests first.

10. The Muslim should apply himself to deepen his sense of following the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhe wa sallam, in every aspect of his life, at all times and especially during the month of Ramadhan.

This necessitates seeking more knowledge about the Fiqh of fasting and its etiquette, assimilating the wisdom and goals of fasting, and facilitating the means that allow all the Muslims to benefit from their fasting.

We ask Allah to accept our fast and our good deeds.
source: Al-Jumuah Magazine, Vol 8, Issue 9


Mohammad Zafar said...

Assalamu alaikum,

True, We need to look at how our pious elders used to spend their Ramadan and try to follow'em, Keeping mainly the Sunnah in the vision in every act(as already mentioned), then all these issues get automatically solved.

I remember my kiddish days when we used to drink water when no one was around..a thought would come..Allah to dekh raha hai...Allah is baar muze maaf karde :) then there came days when accidentally doing such things, it was like a competition for us, a show of I have kept 15..18..24..etc..I am completing these many Quran's this Ramazan..etc..Sitting eagerly at in the masjid when the whisle will blow....and The Taraweeh, that was all for us. Nothing to ponder on the fadhail or the masaail of the Ramadan, what was most discussed was, you should not swallow mucous by storing it and the Shabe Qadr nothing else.

I think we don't grow or learn over time, as we do for our duniyavi studies....that makes the difference, we never learn Fadhail(which was common in the times of Sahaba) which is helpful in Istehzaar(believing/knowing in what one is getting for this action/amal) and Masaail Concerning Soum which would make our Fast more acceptable infront of Allah. Yes we accept we are helpless due to Our Nafs and Shaitan and Mahol too, At this point always reminds me the Dua in Surah Fatiha: Oh Allah, Guide us to the Straight Path, the Path of those whom You have bestowed Your Grace.

May Allah Give us strength in Emaan to Prepare for Ramadhan, and not make one of those who are cursed coz of Ramadhan (due to its Haq).

Uni said...

@Mohammad Zafar
JazakAllah for the insightful comment. Fazaail of acts and their small masaail are extremely useful indeed, but there is other important information such as answers to questions like 'Why do Muslims fast anyway' .. which will motivate us and enable us to have a really productive Ramadan.

Ameen to your dua'a.

Tauqeer said...

Jazak Allah khair for this remind. Beautiful reminder indeed.

Uni said...